Most people in love, proclaim : -He/She is the one -This is the best thing that has happened to me -I have never felt like this and will never feel like this, again in my life
None of the above statements have the gravity to last long. It's just a concoction of hormones, childhood issues, availability & desperation, that makes people feel so utopic about their state of mind.
People in love idolise the other person, they want to see everything from a rose-tinted glass. Each and every inadequacy or shortcomings appear kitschy, endearing & cute.
What really has happened is that they have found a sense of assurance, comfort, and a non-judgmental sphere. The sphere in which they want to coalesce together.
Now, if they really wanted to become one, they started with two ones, they joined themselves into one!
Is this really necessary?
Now, you may say they have physical, emotional & dare I say, psychological needs.
Yes! You are in the appropriate direction.
This is ‘Need’!
Our ‘needs’ camouflage in the form of love.
Now, if I may ask, What is love?
What do you love about the other person? Or Why do you love them?
Stop! Don’t Answer!
Any answer or even an attempt to answer these questions
mean you don’t love them!
Love is not dependent on reasons, love is not a means but an end in itself.
Well! What do I know about love, you may ask!
Don’t you think even I happen to have the above mentioned follies in me?
Yes! I have fallen head over heels not once but … leave it at that
And, each time I felt enamoured in a new way altogether!
Truth Time!
You only love, truly! You only love yourself!
Everything else is just our inadequacies, lack of connection with the self, finding a refuge in another person!
You will have to take my word for it!
